Once again Orso strikes. Thanks to Orso, we can cross another couple off the list of potential friends here. You ask how could that be? How could Orso keep us from making friends? He’s such a sweet dog, super friendly and loves everyone, man and dog alike. Well that’s part of the problem. He wants to be friends with every dog out there, small or large, he doesn’t discriminate. But not all dogs want to be his friend. His size is very intimidating to a lot of dogs he meets.
Today I took him on our afternoon walk and about halfway through our route, three of our neighbors caught up with us walking their dogs. One of the dogs is an older dog that is nice enough, but has no interest in being playmates. She is just happy to plod along for a while then turn back. As long as I stay between Orso and her owner with her on the outside, we are good, no snaps or snarls. Orso has learned to give her a wide berth.
The problem was the other couple and their dog. They are a nice couple with a smaller female black lab, probably weighing in around sixty pounds or so, making her about forty-five pounds lighter than Orso and much lower to the ground. The husband was super friendly, talkative and kept loving on Orso marveling at size of his head. I thought Orso’s head size matched his body size, all were big. I just shrugged and shook my head.
The man let his dog off the leash and let her run, causing Orso to feel short changed, so against the inner voice in my head telling me that this was going to end badly, I let him off the leash too. The man started encouraging his dog to play with Orso, revving Orso in the process. So Orso obliged running at the smaller dog knocking her down and rolling her across the road on her back. She growled and cried at the same time. I rushed forward to grab Orso and hook him back up on the leash, so the man could get to his dog. She stood up and limped around lifting her right front leg and not putting any weight on it.
I thought, great, Orso has maimed their dog. I can only imagine what the vet bill will be. May I can turn around and run away, quickly. Maybe they don’t know where we live. That thought only lasted a moment, because everybody knows where we live. I apologized profusely over and over. The man assured me she was fine and that it was his fault encouraging them to play, but I still felt terrible. And I knew deep down, they would blame us, having a dog that was such a brute. So, as soon as I could gracefully turn around, I said good-bye and walked home as quickly as possible. Trying to put as much space between us as possible.
Poor Orso, he just doesn’t realize how big he is and even at ten and a half years old, he has the energy level of a much younger dog. I have to find him a dog that is bigger than he is to play with, because I don’t make enough money to pay for emergency vet bills. And at this rate, word will spread about the big brown hulk and we’ll have to move again.
I would be harder to knock over (80+ pounds and short legs for a Golden), and I lay down and whimper if a dog threatens me, saying “Make it quick.”
Orso never means any harm, he just doesn’t know his own strength, sort of like Jethro a big goofball.
You are a lover not a fighter and that’s a good thing.
I have been accused of trying to lick someone to death.
Well, somebody’s got to be the life of the party, right? Orso just likes to be that guy…. There’s one in every crowd, er, pack….
*wink*
gigoid
Yeah and that’s Orso to a tee.
Great Dane? Kidding. I’d not ever curse you with suggesting a Jack Russel – who think they are Great Danes in size but wayyyy too damn smart. Hmm. You need a dog who will take roughhousing with a laugh… would you consider a pit rescue? They are lovely and strong, too.
I would love to get a Great Dane, I would take a Mastiff or Newfoundland too. Something BIG. I have been thinking about it more and more. I just want him to be happy and not considered the monster of neighborhood. Poor dog, Orso just wants to make friends.
Irish wolfhound? Big and lazy 🙂
That would work too
They don’t live very long though. 7-8 years at most. It’s why I don’t have one, I couldn’t take that.
The big dogs don’t live long enough, but they live long enough to love you with an unselfish love that makes you feel so warm and comforted.